My lists are so long, I don't know what to choose

Maybe there’s a good reason not to choose. There is probably a fine line between “intuitive holding,” though, and procrastination or resistance to making decisions. But before you think you need to do something about this, you might ask yourself which it is.

Usually, people don’t decide because they don’t have enough information. You can get more information from other sources (people, the Web, the library, etc.) or perhaps from internal sources (intuition, dreams, etc.). If it needs to be internal, it may take time for you to mature the question on the less-than-conscious levels.

As you’re aware, no choice is a choice. It may be a choice not to change, but that’s probably not going to be very viable for very long, because things will be changing around you, and you’ll have to be making choices to stay on an even keel.

If you are dealing with the fear of “What if it’s the wrong choice?” then you just need to focus on the positive direction about what you really want and where you really want to go, so that your internal mechanisms will have an impetus to ferret out the best methods to get there.


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